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📝 THANDIZO LA BANJA | UKWATI — Mndandanda 1

THANDIZO LA BANJA | UKWATI — Mndandanda 1

Momwe Mungakhale Osangalala mu Ukwati — Werengani Mawu a Mulungu

Kuwerenga Baibulo kungathandize mwamuna ndi mkazi kusunga mtendere mu ukwati.

Mulungu angakuthandizeni kukhala ndi ukwati wokondweretsa

“Wopanga kuyambira pachiyambi anawapanga mwamuna ndi mkazi.” — Mateyu 19:4

Yehova anakhazikitsa ukwati woyamba powapanga mkazi ndi kumupereka kwa Adamu. Adamu anasangalala kwambiri ndipo anati:

“Iyi potsiriza ndi fupa la mafupa anga ndi thupi la thupi langa.” — Genesis 2:22, 23

Monga pachiyambi, Yehova akufunabe kuti ma banja akhale osangalala.

Ngakhale pali chikondi chenicheni, mwamuna ndi mkazi amakumana ndi zovuta

“Koma ngati mukwatira, simuchimwa. Komabe, amene akwatira adzakhala ndi zovuta pa moyo.” — 1 Akorinto 7:28

Baibulo limapereka malangizo omwe amalimbitsa ukwati ndi banja.

“Lamulo la Yehova ndi lolondola; limasangalatsa mtima.” — Masalmo 19:8-11

1. Landirani udindo umene Yehova wakupatsani

“Mwamuna ndiye mutu wa banja.” — Aefeso 5:23

Mwamuna ayenera kusamalira mkazi wake ndi chikondi ndi ulemu.

“Mwamuna, pitirizani kukonda akazi anu, monga Khristu anakonda mpingo.” — Aefeso 5:25-29

Mkazi ayenera kulemekeza kwambiri mwamuna wake ndi kumuthandiza mu udindo wake.

“Mkazi ayenera kukhala ndi ulemu wakuya kwa mwamuna wake.” — Aefeso 5:33

Lingaliro logwira ntchito: funsani mnzanu momwe mungakhale mnzake wabwino ndipo khalani wokonzeka kumvetsera ndi kuchita.

2. Onetsani chidwi chenicheni

“Musachite chilichonse chifukwa cha mpikisano kapena kunyada, koma ndi kudzichepetsa muziwona ena kukhala apamwamba kuposa inu.” — Afilipi 2:3, 4

Mawu abwino ndi zochita zachikondi zimakulitsa ukwati.

“Pali mawu omwe amavulaza ngati lupanga, koma lilime la anzeru limabweretsa kuchiritsidwa.” — Miyambo 12:18

Lingaliro logwira ntchito: musanayankhule za nkhani zovuta, pemphani Mulungu kuti akupatseni mtendere ndi nzeru.

3. Ganizirani ngati gulu

“Chifukwa cha ichi, mwamuna adzasiya abambo ake ndi amayi ake, ndipo adzamamatira mkazi wake, ndipo adzakhala thupi limodzi.” — Mateyu 19:5

Ukwati ndi mgwirizano. Ngakhale ndi malingaliro osiyana, banja liyenera kufunafuna umodzi.

“Funsani malangizo abwino ndipo mudzakhala ndi kupambana.” — Miyambo 20:18

Lingaliro logwira ntchito: gawani malingaliro ndi kumva, osati malingaliro okha, ndipo funsani mnzanu musanavomereze udindo.

Khalani owona mtima komanso okondwa

“Iye amadziwa bwino momwe tinapangidwira, amakumbukira kuti ndife fumbi.” — Masalmo 103:14

Palibe ukwati wangwiro. Kuyamikira makhalidwe abwino a mnzanu ndi kudalira mfundo za m’Baibulo kumalimbitsa mgwirizano.

“Musataye mtima pochita zabwino, chifukwa pa nthawi yake tidzakolola, ngati sitisiya.” — Agalatiya 6:9

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✨ Kutsiriza kwa Mndandanda 1 Iyi ndi mapeto a Mndandanda 1. ➡️ Mu nkhani yotsatira tidzawona zimene Baibulo limanena za ukwati. Mfundo za m’Baibulo zingathandize ma banja kupewa ndi kugonjetsa zovuta...

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